The breeze of heavan…..

Welcome Ramalan…..

01. Buy all necessities for the month of Ramadan before Ramadan so you can spend less time during the holy month rushing around. You can be more focused on your religious rituals and spiritual development. Everyone in the family, even the kids, can participate, writing a shopping list, preparing some meals to be stored in the freezer.

02. If you have gotten into bad sleeping habits throughout the year, start readjusting now so you can wake up for Fajr prayer.

03. Sunnah fasts of Shaaban (the month before Ramadan) help to prepare for Ramadan and help to make the transition into the holy month a smooth one.

04. Reduce TV watching and prepare the family for the new spirit of Ramadan. Engage with your kids more and more in creative activities that remind them of Ramadan. (Suggested activities including reading the moral story books in group).

05. Organize your tape/CD collection to make it easy to select and to play nice nasheed (Hamd/Naat) to sing along together or Quran and Dua recitation, so as to introduce the spirit of the month gradually.

06. Plan ahead for the time you are spend at home in order not to lose the balance between your responsibility as a parent to supervise the children’s studies and your engagement in religious practices such as reading Quran and praying Salat.

07. Plan ahead if your daughter needs a hijab to accompany you to the mosque. If possible, get shoes for the kids that are easy to tie when they leave the mosque. Do you or the kids need prayer rugs for prayer? Plan transportation to the mosque and back home.

08. Prepare as much cooking as you can before Ramadan. Here are some time-saving tips:

1. Prepare some vegetables and store them in the freezer to have them ready when needed.
2. If you soak dates in milk or water and eat them for Iftar, pit the dates before Ramadan.
3. Chop onions, garlic and store them in the freezer to have them ready when cooking during Ramadan.

09. If you are planning to invite guests for Iftar, the best time to do that is during your monthly period (menstruation). This has several advantages:

1. You will be able to taste the food that is going to be served.
2. You won’t be engaged in some acts of worship so you’ll have more time for cooking.
3. You won’t have guilt feelings for staying after ‘Isha’ with the guests and not going to the mosque.

10. Prepare your kids before Ramadan that they have to help you more in housework and in setting the table and preparing the Iftar. Relate their action with the notion of Sadaqah and good deeds. Remind them that the reward of their good deeds is multiplied during Ramadan.

Adopted from islamonline.net with slight modifications.

Unconditional Love…….

 

 

A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco.
“Mom and Dad, I’m coming home, but I’ve a favor to ask. I have a friend I’d like to bring home with me.”

“Sure,” they replied, “we’d love to meet him.”
“There’s something you should know the son continued, “he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mind and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us.”
“I’m sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live.”
“No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us.”
“Son,” said the father, “you don’t know what you’re asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can’t let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He’ll find a way to live on his own.”

At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide. The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn’t know, their son had only one arm and one leg.

The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don’t like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren’t as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. Thankfully, there’s someone who won’t treat us that way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless of how messed up we are.

 

Tonight, before you tuck yourself in for the night, ask Almighty  God  to Give you the strength you need to accept pesle as they are, and to help us all be more understanding of those who are different from us!!!

 

 

 

Know where you are in Life…

A boat docked in a tiny Goan village. A tourist from Mumbai complimented
the Goan fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took
him to catch them.

“Not very long,” answered the fisherman.

“But then, why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more?” asked
the
Mumbaite.

The Goan fisherman explained that his small catch was sufficient to meet
his needs and those of his family.

The Mumbaite asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?”

“I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, and take a siesta
with my wife. In the evenings, I go into the village to see my friends,
play guitar, sing a few songs… I have a full life.”

 The Mumbaite interrupted, “I have an MBA from IIM-A, and I can help you!
You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the
extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger
boat.”“And after that?” asked the Goan.

“With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second
one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of
trawlers. Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then
negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your
own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to Panjim, or
even Mumbai. From there you can direct your huge new enterprise.”

“How long would that take?” asked the Goan.

“Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years,” replied the Mumbaite.

“And after that?”
“Afterwards? Well my Friend, That’s when it gets really
interesting,”
chuckled the Mumbaite, “When your business gets really big, you can
start selling stocks and make millions!”

“Millions? Really? And after that?” asked the Goan.

“After that you’ll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the
coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a
siesta with your wife and spend your evenings doing what you like with
your buddies.”

“With all due respect sir, but that’s exactly what I am doing now. So
what’s the point wasting 25 years?” asked the Goan.

And the moral of the story is? Know where you’re going in life. You may
already be there.

Life in the present world is indeed a rat race. Many who have
qualifications from reputed universities too do not know where they are
going in life.

Give it a serious thought, and please don’t forget to take charge of
your health.

 

 

ThOuGhT FoR tHE dAy

When you have to put up with mean people,
Think of them as sandpaper.
They may scratch you,
Rub you the wrong way
But eventually…

YOU end up smooth & polished
And the sandpaper….?
It’ll be worn out & ugly!
Makes you think, doesn’t it?
Never lose sight of who You Are,  You Are the Best thing God ever Created, Embrace the gift”

வெட்க‌மாயில்லை?

 

மூச்சுக்காற்றுக்காய்
கெஞ்சும்
சுவாச‌ப்பை…

 
இனியொரு
எள் கூட
ஏற‌முடியாம‌ல்
க‌ண்டி கொழும்பு ப‌ஸ்….

 
முக‌ங்க‌ள்..
முக‌ங்க‌ளாய்…
ம‌னித வர்க்க‌ம்.

 
செத்த முக‌ங்க‌ள்…
எந்த முக‌த்திலும்
ச‌ந்தோச‌மில்லை….

 
ஒரு
குழந்தையின் சிணுங்கல்
உயிரை ஞாப‌கிக்க‌ச் செய்கிற‌து!

 
“குண்டுக‌ளையிட்டு
அவ‌தான‌மாயிருங்க‌ள்”
அறிவிப்பு….

 
அதோ
ஒரு லிப்ஸ்டிக் உத‌ட்டு
ஐம்ப‌து வ‌ய‌து
அசைகிற‌து,
கைப்பையை என்னிட‌ம் த‌ந்த‌ப‌டி…
………………….
………………….
இதோ
இப்போது
குண்டு வெடிக்க‌ப் போகிற‌து….

 
……………….
நீண்ட கூந்த‌ல்
நெற்றியில்
தீற்ற‌லாய் விபூதி…
ஒரு
க‌றுப்பு நிலா
…………………………
இப்போது
குண்டு வெடிக்க‌ப் போகிற‌து….

 
விழி பிதுங்கியென்
தொண்டை
உல‌ர்கிற‌து…..

 
மூடிய என்
உடலிலருகே
ஒரு சிங்க‌ள யுவ‌தி…
புன்னகையின்
க‌டைசித்துளியும்
காய்ந்து போன
உத‌டுக‌ள்…..

 
என் புத்த‌க‌ங்க‌ளிடையே
குண்டிருக்க‌க் கூடும்
நான்
குறுகிப் போகிறேன்….

 
வாங்கிய தின‌க்குர‌லை
விரித்துப் பிடிக்க‌விய‌லாம‌ல்
இடுங்கிய
விழிக‌ள் யாருடைய‌வை…………

 
ஓராயிர‌ம் முறை
செத்துப்பிழைக்கும்…
உயிரே….
உன‌க்கு வெட்க‌மாயில்லை?

ToDaY iS All wHAt YoU HaVE……..

A beautiful extract from  one of my inspiring books-DONT BE SAD by Asidh  ibn Abdullah al-Qarni

When you wake up in the morning, do not expect to see the evening – live as though today is all that you have. Yesterday has passed with its good and evil, while tomorrow has not yet arrived.

Your life’s span is but one day, as if you were born in it, and will die at the end of it. With this attitude, you will not be caught between an obsession over the past, with all its anxieties, and the hopes of the future with all its uncertainty.

Live for today: During this day you should pray with a wakeful heart, recite the Qur’an with understanding, and remember Allah with sincerity. In this day you should be balanced in your affairs, satisfied with your allotted portion, concerned with your appearance and health.

Organize the hours of this day, so that you make years out of minutes and months out of seconds. Seek forgiveness from your Lord, remember Him, prepare for the final parting from this world, and live today happily and at peace.

Be content with your sustenance, your wife, your children, your work, your house and your station in life.

“So hold that which I have given you and be of the grateful.” Qur’an 7:144

Live today free from sorrow, bother, anger, jealousy and malice. You must engrave onto your heart on phrase: Today is my only day. If you have eaten warm, fresh bread today, then what do yesterday’s dry, rotten bread and tomorrow’s anticipated bread matter?

If you are truthful to yourself and have a firm, solid resolve, you will undoubtedly convince yourself of the following: Today is my last day to live. When you achieve this attitude, you will profit from every moment of your day, by developing your personality, expanding your abilities, and purifying your deeds.

Then you say to yourself:

Today I shall be refined in my speech and will utter neither evil speech nor obscenithy. Also, I shall not backbite.

Today I shall organize my house and my office. They will not be disorderly and chaotic, but organized and neat.

Today I will be particular about my bodily cleanliness and appearance. I will be meticulous in my neatness and balanced in my walk, talk and actions.

Today I will strive to be obedient to my Lord, pray in the best manner possible, do more voluntary acts of righteousness, recite the Qur’an and read beneficial books. I will plant goodness into my heart and extract from it the roots of evil – such as pride, jealousy and hypocrisy.

Today I will try to help others – to visit the sick, to attend a funeral, to guide the one who is lost, and to feed the hungry. I willl stand side by side with the oppressed and the weak. I will pay respect to the scholar, be merciful to the young, and reverent to the old.

O past that has departed and is gone, I will not cry over you. You will not see me remembering you, not even for a moment, because you have traveled away from me never to return.

O future, you are in the realm of the unseen, so I will not be obsessed by your dreams. I will not be preoccupied about what is to come because tomorrow is nothing and has not yet been created.

‘Today is my only day” is one of the most important statements in the dictionary of happiness, for those who desire to live life in its fullest splendor and brilliance.

Live for today

Islam and Stress management

Islam and Stress management

Description and Importance of Zikr

Note: This series of articles about stress on “The Islamic Workplace” blog describe the type of stress one may experience as a normal part of one’s career. These articles are purely for informational purposes, and do not refer to the severe types of stress experienced in major crises or life-threatening situations. One should seek professional advice in such situations.

Stress is “the physiological response to actions or events that place excessive psychological or physical demands on a person.” It is a condition or feeling experienced when a person perceives that demands exceed his ability or resources to handle them. When you are stressed, it may result in any or all of the following:

1. Decrease in communication.
2. Decrease in motivation.
3. Decrease in performance since your performance is a function of your ability times your motivation.
4. Learned helplessness. According to Wikipedia, “learned helplessness is a psychological condition in which a person feels that he/she has no control over his/her situation and that whatever he/she does is futile. As a result, he/she will stay passive when the situation is unpleasant or harmful.”
5. Reactance. According to Wikipedia, “reactance is an action in direct contradiction to rules and/or regulations that threaten or eliminate specific behavioral freedoms; it can occur when someone is heavily pressured to accept a certain view or attitude. Reactance can cause the person to adopt or strengthen a view or attitude that is contrary to what was intended and also increases resistance to persuasion.” Reactance can lead to rebellion or physical confrontation to restore previously gained rights or freedom.

Please note that the amount of stress one experiences depends on one’s perception of the situation and one’s ability to handle with it. In a future post, I will talk about the mechanisms underlying stress.

No matter how bad you perceive your situation to be and how depressed or stressed or desperate you are, never give up on Allah. Doing so is actually tantamount to disbelief.

“Truly no one despairs of Allah’s Soothing Mercy except those who have no faith. ” (Qur’an, 12: 87)

When you feel overwhelmed and down with stress, remember Allah and do Zikr. Zikr refers to all forms of the remembrance of Allah, including Salat, Tasbeeh, making supplication (Dua), and reading Quran.

“And your Lord says: ‘Call on Me; I will answer your (prayer)…” (Quran 40:60)

As Muslims, we are in direct communication with the Almighty. He is the only One Who not only Hears and Knows all, but Who can change our situation and give us the patience to deal with our difficulties.

“Remember Me, and I shall remember you; be grateful to Me, and deny Me not“
(Quran 2:152).

Continuously relying on Allah or Tawakkul is an intrinsic part of your life as a Muslim or Muslima, and especially so during times of stress. Before you leave home for work, say ‘in Your Name Allah, I put my trust in Allah, and there is no power or force except with Allah’ (Bismillahi Tawakal to al Allah wa la hawla wa la quwwata illa billah).

Once you have determined how to deal with a stressful situation or problem at work or Allah, put your trust in the most Wise and the All-Knowing.

“When you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah” (Quran 3: 159).

Part of the above article comes from: How a Muslim should deal with stress and anxiety by Abdul Malik Mujahid. Please read the complete article on the Islamcity Forum website.

 

 

 

 

The Islamic Movement And Women’s Activity

by  Sh. Yusuf al-Qaradawi  

 

இஸ்லாமிய இயக்கமும் பெண்களின்  செயற்பாடுகளும்

The Islamic Movement And Women’s Activity

from Priorities of The Islamic Movement in The Coming Phase

The Islamic Movement has given attention to woman since the dawn of the call. Imam Hassan Al­Banna established the “Muslim Sisterhood” section and assigned it the task of spreading the idea among Muslim women and raising up a generation of women who could shoulder part of the burden carried by the men of the “Muslim Brotherhood” in their endeavor to establish Allah’s religion in the land.

This section played a significant role, and the Sisterhood had its share of hardship, especially where caring for the families of imprisoned members of the Brotherhood and delivering food supplies and money to them were concerned, despite the risk they ran against the agents of Criminal­ Investigations Department. Some of them suffered extreme hardship for Allah’s cause, such as our sister Zainab Al­Ghazali.

 

The deficiency of Islamic Work in Women’s Circles

However, we have to admit that women’s Islamic work has not yet reached the desired level, though the call has spread among women, especially university students and secondary school pupils.

Although over sixty year have passed since the Movement emerged into existence, no women leaders have appeared that can confront secular and Marxist trends single-handedly and efficiently.
This has come about as a result of men’s unrelenting attempts to control women’s movement, as men have never allowed women a real chance to express themselves and show special leadership talents and abilities that demonstrate their capability of taking command of their work without men’s dominance.

 

When Will Women’s Islamic Work Succeed?

 

 

I believe that women’s Islamic work will succeed and prove itself in the arena of the Islamic Movement only when it gives birth to female Islamic leaders in the fields of Call, thought, science, literature and education.

I do not think that this is impossible or even difficult. There are genius women just as there are genius men. Ingenuity is not a monopoly for men. It is not in vain that the Holy Quran tells us the story of a woman who led men wisely and bravely and made her people fare the best end: it is the Queen of Sheba, whose story with Solomon is told in Surat Al­Naml.

I have observed in the University of Qatar that girls make better students than boys. Other colleagues in the university made the same observation. This is particularly true because girls have more time for study than boys, who are occupied by many things and have cars in which they roam the streets all the time.

 

The Spread of Hardline Ideas in This Field

I must say frankly here that Islamic work has been the scene of spreading hardline ideas that now govern the relationship between man and woman, adopting the strictest opinions to be ever found on this issue.

This is what I saw for myself in many conferences and symposiums even in Europe and the United States. For several years in a row, I attended the annual conferences of the Muslim Student Union in the United States and Canada in the mid­ 1970’s. Both men and women attended the lectures and debates, listening to comments, questions, answers and discussions in every major Islamic issue, including the academic, social, educational and political. The only sessions restricted to women were those allocated to dealing with the questions that concerned women alone.

However, I attended some conferences in the United States and Europe in the 1980’s, and found that women were kept away from a good part of the important lectures and debates. Some of the women also complained that they had become bored with the lectures that focus on woman’s role, rights, responsibilities and position in Islam and had come to regard the repetition of those lectures as a sort of punishment imposed on them. I denounced that in more than one conference I attended, telling the participants that the rule in worship and religious learning was participation and that there never existed in Islam a mosque that had been reserved to women alone and not visited by men.

Women attended the sessions in which the Prophet taught Muslims the Religion. They also participated in (or at least attended) the Jumaa’ (Friday), the two Id s (bairams) and congregational prayers together with men. They asked questions about minute female matters without being prevented from learning the Religion by their shyness, as Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) herself said.

The books of Sunna abound in questions that were directed to the Prophet (peace be upon him) by women, including those asked by women who wanted answers to questions that concerned only themselves and those asked by women on behalf of all women, as the woman who said “O Messenger of Allah, I have been sent to you by women”.

Women also asked the Prophet to allocate a separate day for them that they would have to themselves without the men, so that they might have the time and privacy to ask whatever they liked without being inhibited by the presence of men.

This was another privilege given to women besides the public lessons they attended together with men.

 

The Problem of Islamic Work in Women’s Activity

The problem of women’s Islamic work is that it is men who direct it, not women, and men are careful to maintain their grip on it, so they would not allow female readerships to emerge. Men impose themselves on women’s Islamic work, including even women’s meetings, as they exploit the shyness of reticent Muslim women and never allow them to take command of their own affairs. This way, no female talents are given a chance to prove themselves in the pursuits of the Islamic Movement or to be seasoned by experience and struggle and taught in the school of life by trial and error.

However, our Muslim sisters are not wholly free of blame, for they have surrendered to this sorry state of affairs’ contenting themselves with a life of ease and tranquility in which men thought and chose for them. It is high time they took the initiative, opened wide the doors of effort and work for the Call and shut up those self-appointed female voices that have imposed themselves on the doctrine, laws and values of this Nation. These strange voices, loud as they are, represent only a defeated, downtrodden minority that has no weight both in religion and in worldly affairs. I was invited to give a lecture to female students of an Algiers university last year. As is customary after a lecture, I started taking questions from the girls in written or oral forms. Some young men were present, and one of them took it upon himself to collect the questions, sort them out and pass along to me what he thought should be answered and abandon what should not. I objected to his conduct, saying “Why does not one of the girls do that on behalf of her colleagues”? “Why do you men have to ‘poke your nose’ in women’s affairs?. Take your hands off them! Let them do whatever they like, sorting out their own questions and choosing what they deem fit and then making one of their kind read them aloud”, I said. It was as if I had lifted a heavy burden off the chests of the girls, and one of them hurriedly came forward to assume the role that one of the men who had escorted me to the gathering was playing.

A similar incident took place this winter in Manchester City in Britain, where a Muslim student convention was held. A lecture to Muslim women had been scheduled for me, to be followed by questions and answers. Again, one of the good young men assumed responsibility for receiving and sorting out questions, but I said to him bluntly, “There is no reason for you to be here. It would be better if one of the girls did that for her colleagues, for they have a right to run their own affairs here”. However, the good brother told me that he had been assigned that task according to the practice followed there and could not abandon it. He did have his own explanation, which I had to accept in fact.

Another complaint from our sisters in Egypt and Algeria is that when an active, motivated and religion serving girl marries a conscientious, abiding man whom she came to know through Call related work, he forces her to stay at home and denies her participation in the Movement, putting out a torch that was lighting the path of other Muslim girls. It has apparently become so common that an Algerian girl working in the Islamic field once wrote to me asking whether it was harem for her to refuse marriage for the sake of avoiding the end of others of her sisters in Islam who had ended up in a life of laziness and idleness away from the field of the Movement and the Call, at the time when work was allowed to communist and secular women.

 

A Potential Objection and Its Rebuttal

Hardliners may ask how we want Muslim women to play an active role in the Islamic Movement and act as leaders to prove their presence in the field of Islamic work while they are ordered in the Holy Quran to stay in their homes (And stay quietly in your houses, and make not a dazzling display, like that of the former Times of Ignorance) [Surat Al­Ahzab: 33].

My answer to such zealous questions is that this verse was addressed to the Prophet’s women, who had a special position that no other women would have, and were subject to restrictions that do not apply to other women. Allah the Almighty says to them in the Holy Quran, (O consorts of the Prophet! You are not like any of the [other] women) [Surat Al­Ahzab: 32].

However, this verse did not prevent Aisha from going to war in the Battle of the Camel, to demand what she thought right in politics, supported by two of the senior Companions of the Prophet who had been nominated for the caliphate and are among “the Ten Who Received Glad Tidings” (of sure entrance into Paradise).

Her regret of that situation, as told by historians, was not because her going out of her house was illegal, but because her political view was not successful, may Allah grant her forgiveness and bless her soul.

However, if we examine the opinion of those who claim that this verse was meant for all women, we will find that it does not mean confining them to the houses and never letting them out, as such confinement was stipulated by the Quran as a punishment for sinning women who proved to have committed adultery with evidence given by four witnesses before the Shari’ah set their punishment at the hadd [pi. Hudud, major punishments in Islam] mentioned in the Quran and hadith. Allah the Almighty says (If any of your women are guilty of lewdness, take the evidence of four [reliable] witnesses from amongst you against them; and if they testify, confine them to houses until death claims them, or Allah ordains for them some [other] way} [Surat Al­Nisa: 1 5].

Moreover, Allah’s saying (And make not a dazzling display, like that of the former Times of Ignorance) [Surat Al­Ahzab: 33] indicates that it is legal for women to go out if they are dressed modestly and do not make a dazzling display, for a woman is not to be prohibited from displaying herself within her home, as she is allowed to dress and make herself beautiful as she likes at home. What a woman is ordered to refrain from is to make herself beautiful and display herself when she goes out on the street or goes to the market or anywhere else, so as to avoid any suspicion of dazzling display

 

 

 

 

 

புதிதாக சிந்திக்கக் கூடாது!!

 

நேற்றிரவு மின்சாரம் அறுந்து போனது….
அடிக்கடி கிண்கிணுக்கும் அலைபேசியை அறையிலேயே வைத்து விட்டு வெளியே வருகிறேன்.
லேசாக மழை தூரல்……
சட்டென்று இறுகிப் போன முகத்தை ஒரு புன்னகை தொட்டுச்செல்கிறது.

இறைவனைப் புகழ்ந்துகொள்கிறேன்.

இறைவா
மாற்றங்களை ஏற்க மறுக்கின்ற குறுகிய மனத்தை எனக்குத் தந்து விடாதே 
என் மனம் உள்ளுக்குள் இருகரமேந்துகிறது.

புதிதாக ஒன்றை செய்ய முடியாது.
சிந்திக்கக் கூட முடியாது.
அது சரிவராது…
வழமையானபடியே செய்வோமே…
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இப்படியானவர்களுடன் சேர்ந்து பணியாற்றுவது பெரிய சவால்.

அண்மையில் ஒரு நிகழ்ச்சிக்கான அழைப்புக்கடிததைத் தயாரிக்க நேரிட்டது.

நிறுவனத்தின் குறிப்பிட்ட ஒரு பகுதியின் நிகழ்ச்சி.
சம்பிரதாயமான அலுவலகக்கடிததிலிருந்து சற்றே மாறுபட்ட ஒரு அமைப்பில் கடிதத்தை வடிவமைத்தோம்.கடிதம் அழகாக வந்திருக்கிறது என்ற கருத்தில் பலர் இருக்க
அந்தப் பிரிவின் பொறுப்பாளர்கள் சிலர் இப்படி வந்திருக்க தேவையில்லை என்று அபிப்பிராயப்படார்கள்.
அவர்கள் அதற்கு சொன்ன காரணம் மிகவும் வருத்தத்தைத் தந்தது.எல்லாப் பிரிவுகளின் கடிதங்களும் ஒரே விதமாக இருக்க
இந்தப் பிரிவுக்கு மட்டும் என்ன முக்கியத்துவம் வேண்டியிருக்கிறது?
வாழ்ந்து கொண்டிருப்பது கணிப்பொறி யுகத்தில்.
ஒரு பிரிவின் செயற்பாடுகளின் தரம் அதிகம் என்றால் அதற்கேட்ப மற்றப்பிரிவுகளின் நடவடிக்கைகளின் தரத்தையும் அதிகரிப்பது தானே ஆக்கபூர்வமானது.

இப்படியான மனோநிலைகள்.

 ஒரு குற்றச்சாட்டை முன்வைப்பது என்றாலும் அது ஒரு பெரிய சுற்று சுற்றி விட்டுத் தான் சம்பந்தப்பட்டவர் காதுகளுக்கு வரும்.
ஏனோ தெரியவில்லை.
சிலருக்கு சொல்வதை முகத்துக்கு முன் சொல்லத் தைரியமில்லை.

மனசில் எழுந்த கேள்விகளுக்கெல்லாம் அந்த தூரத்து நட்சத்திரம் பதில் சொல்லிவிட்டது.

மீண்டும் புதிய உற்சாகத்துடன் வீட்டினுள் நுழைந்தேன்.

தையெல்லாம் தூக்கிப் பிடித்துக்கொண்டிருக்க முடியுமா?
ஒரு நிறுவனம் என்றால் பலதரப்பட்டவர்களிருப்பார்கள்.
இணங்கித் தான் ஆக வேண்டும்.
அதிலும் வயதில் மூத்தவர்களிடம் சற்று தாழ்ந்து போனால் தான் அவர்களுக்கும் திருப்தி.